People get energy and motivation to work from emotions. It is not money or reason that motivate people. In our daily life, we see people working, not because of emotional involvement, but for money. Their lack of commitment and efficiency can be easily observed. Such people make simple work very difficult. We can see such people in government offices and every 'for profit business establishments'.They make life difficult not only for others but for themselves too.
Life without emotions is a dry and meaningless life. It is no life at all.
True love is an emotion that enriches the world. Love motivates people to achieve extraordinary things in life. Love inspires people to work tirelessly for their loved ones. Couples work for each other, parents work for children, children work for parents and each other, friends do extraordinary sacrifices for each other, and love for one's country makes soldiers sarifice their life for their country.
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| True Romantic Love is the most inspiring factor in a person's life. |
There is one love that is the most important and the most beautiful. That is the true romantic love.This love between lovers is the basis of family life. And family life is the basis for the existance of the society. Therefore, true romantic love is subjected to strict control in most of the societies. In western countries romantic love is used to keep people from thinking about the atrocities their governments do around the world. In the rest of the world, romantic love is considered bad. The control of the society over romantic love is very strong. Teenagers feel the need to get close to members of the opposite sex. But, parents, teachers, relatives and the society actively discourage such natural tendencies. This is done so that people in power can easily exercise power over the lives of young people and maintain the social status quo and climb the economic and social ladder.
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Sunity Devi and Jesvir Singh killed by the society in Haryana just because they were in love.
Picture taken May 9, 2008. INDIA-HONOURKILLING/ REUTERS/Stringer |
The harm this control over true romantic love does to the personality and character of young people is enormous. Thousands of people are killed in many parts of the world for daring to love someone. Many youngsters are punished in various ways because of their love. Control over true romantic love causes ignorance about the opposite sex; their desires and needs. Young people are forced to grow up unnaturally. Instead of guiding young people in understanding the new feelings of romantic love, they are blamed for their natural feelings. It causes people to turn their attention towards useless achievements and ego boosting. People become selfish and many even engage in selfdestructive activities when true love is denied to them. Joy in life comes through true romantic love. Young people are coerced to live lonely life till the age of twenty five or thirty. By that age people, lose their idealism and passion for love and concentrate on the practical things. Thus, most people never experience the ecstacy of being in love. So, they do not attempt to create a better world. They are just content in living a dry and passionless life. People try to change the world so that their loved ones get the best conditions for living. If true romantic love is denied and instead a living arrangement with a member of opposite sex is made, then practical people will be content and think that this is the best the world has to offer. People without true love can achieve many things but they lose touch with reality. They develop artificial needs. They can never experience the wonderful world in which true lovers live in. Their logic and reasoning become perverted and they lose direction and meaning in life. Undesirable things become their priorities. They create unnecessarey problems for themselves and the society. With out true love people cant feel secure.
The wonderful feelings and beautiful dreams created by romantic love cant be suppressed for ever. True romantic love elevates lovers to an another world. They lose their selfishness and ego. They start caring for each other more than for themselves. They become more optimistic. They feel secure in each other's love. They resolutely work to create a better world. They inspire each other to do whatever is needed to create a better world, because they want the best for their beloved. They are ready to sacrifice everything for their love.
Therefore, it is essential that true love is not made a tool of control by the dominant people in the society, instead the power of true love to create a better world should be recognised. True love is indeed special and lifechanging. True love has the biggest role in inspiring people to create a better world.
